zman cheruteinu

[chanaleh]

or, what I did on my Passover vacation, day 8:

We filed the papers.

Planning to go back on Thurs (pending any work flare-ups) to try to get a same-day hearing.

*sigh*

Please note that this is a public entry.

Comments

[hahathor.livejournal.com]

Congratulations and condolences in whatever proportion is most appropriate.

And a good measure of hugs.

And an offer of an ear if you need one - or a drink.

[bedfull-o-books.livejournal.com]

Yes. This.

[bluepapercup]

Agreed, this.

Be well.

[ceo]

All of this. Wishing you strength and healing.

[hammercock.livejournal.com]

*hug* Divorce sucks, even when you know it's the right path.

[ckd]

Best wishes.

[netpositive.livejournal.com]

What hammercock said. Change is stressful, and commitments have consequences. Best of luck to both of you as you move on from here.

[miraclaire.livejournal.com]

*hugs*

[kimberlogic.livejournal.com]

*hugs*

[alandd.livejournal.com]

*hugs*

[sanpaku.livejournal.com]

Been there... and you need all these hugs.

[trowa-barton.livejournal.com]

*hugs* and drinks

[qiika.livejournal.com]

*hugs*

[xiphias.livejournal.com]

*sigh*

Has to be done.

I think I've said it before: this might be easier if either of you had done anything WRONG, rather than being two good people who just had insurmountable incompatabilities.

[chaiya.livejournal.com]

*rehug*

[donnad.livejournal.com]

*hugs*
You know it's the right thing to do, may it all go smoothly and quickly.

[lyriendel.livejournal.com]

*hugs!*

[besamim.livejournal.com]

Hugs and sympathy and all good things. And as I've said before, remember to listen to your emotions and your body and take time out for yourself on occasion if you need it.

[jethrien.livejournal.com]

I'm sorry it was necessary. I hope that when this is finally over, it lightens the load on each of you.

[arib.livejournal.com]

Be well.
-AB

[thevortex.livejournal.com]

May everything be for the best!

[cycon.livejournal.com]

I desire to associate myself with these expressions of love and support. And lots of hugs.

[dragonfriek.livejournal.com]

Many hugs and offerings of support, ears and homebrew, in whatever proportions you most prefer.

[scholargipsy.livejournal.com]

Any divorce, no matter how wise or necessary, can feel like a failure. But staying for life in a mistake is worse, I'd say, and I've been (kind of, since everyone does this more or less alone) where you are.

I hope the broken bones heal stronger. Mine did, eventually, and I wish the same for you.

Telling people is a hard step

[drwex]

I hope the steps get easier from here.

[vettecat.livejournal.com]

Appropriate in a sad sort of way. I hope the closure will bring you peace. And let me know if you need me to do anything on this end to help you free up time.

A bit like attending your own funeral...

[rebhershy.livejournal.com]

My divorces were painful and freeing experiences. I had/have a lot of shame around them, because they point to such deep flaws and failures, such massive mistakes and wrong choices.

Not projecting or anything... but...

The most precious thing we may possess is a broken heart, it makes us beautiful and pliable, capable of worship and profound submission.

Blessings.

Love & Pain

H

[bethr.livejournal.com]

A little late on the commentary here, but I hope it went smoothly and not horribly painfully. what tears me (literally) is not the civil part, but the idea of ripping the ketuba in half.

[melopoeia.livejournal.com]

*HUG*